What does men look for in a woman? It’s something many women wonder about. Contrary to what you might think, it has little to do with your cup size, the length of your legs, or your weight. In this article, I’ll tell you about the 8 non-physical things that play a role in the question: “What do men want?” After reading this article, you’ll know what men look for in a woman.

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What does men look for in a woman?

If you want to know what a man seeks in a woman, it’s important to realize that appearance mainly plays a role in the early stages of your relationship, when you’re getting to know each other. Men are visually oriented and will quickly become interested if you look nice. But in a relationship, a man mainly wants someone he clicks with, someone who is there for him, and someone who respects him. And that has little to do with appearance.

Beauty comes from within

True beauty comes from within. Of course, men look at the outside, but when it comes to commitment, character is what counts. A woman who laughs a lot is attractive.

That’s how women should be towards their man too—someone who doesn’t take life, and especially themselves, too seriously. Show who you really are, be yourself, and be positive. This way, a man will appreciate you for your character.

Ultimately, we all like to be in the company of someone cheerful about life. Someone who gives us energy! Men attach much more importance to a woman who is well cared for on the inside, rather than just the outside.

Respects herself and her friend/man

What does a man need from a woman? This is one of the answers to this question. Men find respect incredibly important. And that doesn’t necessarily have to do with their position concerning you. It has to do with the feeling that you take him seriously.

Take the time to listen to your partner. It is essential to do this even during a heated discussion. Women who keep quiet during arguments are more attractive. Men also see it as a sign of respect if private matters between the two of you remain private, no matter how serious. Respect also implies that women love their men for who and what they are, of course, just as men love their women for who and what they are.

The small (minus) points and behaviors are part of that too. Is a man who goes poker with friends once a week a bad partner? Certainly not. A good girlfriend lets her boyfriend do his thing and supports him. Respect and self-assurance are also important for a man. No matter how ‘strong’ a man is, every man needs a stronger woman behind him!

Ambitious

No, men don’t necessarily want a workaholic who can’t think of anything other than her work. But an ambitious woman is attractive. Ambition encompasses two parts: the need to develop a specific skill and a general recognition of it.

The need for recognition is the powerful engine behind it all. This applies equally to men and women. A skill without recognition will ultimately die out. Recognition without skill will either not give satisfaction or indicate a narcissistic personality.

Men are looking for a woman who wants to be the best. The best in her field, the best mother for her children… Such a woman will also go for a successful relationship and put in all the time and effort it needs!

Many women think that men mainly want to be the ambitious ones in a relationship, but you’d be surprised how much a man appreciates it when you let your ambition show and display it to him.

Has trust and can be trusted

If you ask men “What are you looking for in a woman?” this is an answer they give. Ultimately, everyone in a relationship is looking for someone they can trust. Jealousy and suspicion ruin a lot. It shows that you don’t trust him and makes him feel like you want to check on him constantly. This affects a man’s sense of freedom.

Men have a great need for freedom and quickly feel stifled if they doubt what he’s doing, start controlling them, and become jealous. This automatically makes him more distant and retreats into his shell: a safe place to let things sink in and think for a while, but often not a good sign for the woman when a man does this. A woman who trusts her man, in what he does and gives him space and freedom, is a woman who has already won more than half.

How nice is it to have a confident woman by your side when things aren’t going well? A woman who can complement her man and who knows very well what she wants. Who trusts that everything will be fine. That trust translates into sexuality: it’s attractive and that in turn is positive for your sex life!

Likes cuddling

Funny enough, men and women sometimes just want the same things. Someone who wants to cuddle, where you can hang out comfortably.

Many women like this and this is also what men look for in a woman! Physical contact helps strengthen your bond. You feel loved when someone cares about you so much that they want to hold you and be in contact with you, both physically and mentally.

Cuddling a lot also helps maintain a long-term relationship. Cuddling is related to sexual satisfaction. Cuddling also stimulates more intimate contact and we all know how happy that makes us. Through physical contact, your body produces dopamine, a natural aphrodisiac or arousal inducer.

The same substance is also produced when using certain drugs. Cuddling also lowers the threshold for intimate contact. Is it all about sex then? No, it also lowers blood pressure. Your body produces oxytocin with every physical contact. The substance seems to play an important role in establishing interesting, social contacts.

This substance is also strongly influential in finding love. It doesn’t cause stress but actually lowers your blood pressure and makes you feel calmer. Cuddling also improves communication between men and women. It goes without saying that when you cuddle a lot, you are also together a lot.

When you spend a lot of time together, you have a lot of time to talk, so you talk about everything more quickly. That way, you never run out of things to say to each other and certain topics won’t remain between you, which is often the cause of arguments or discussions.

Has influence

You can interpret this very differently. Let me explain what I mean. Having influence can be perceived as something very dominant and negative, but it can also be very positive. Because if you have a good, positive influence on your friend or man, you can also give him the space to become who he wants to be.

A positive influence can mean that you encourage him to do that hobby he’s been dreaming of for ages. It can mean that you encourage him to go to the pub with his friends. Give him the space to become the man he wants to be. This will benefit the relationship. A man will feel fulfilled when he has his life in his eyes on track and when he can offer you everything, he wants to offer you. Influencing the relationship is the most important thing in this.

Can you give the relationship a push in the right direction, especially when things aren’t going so smoothly? Then you’re on the right track!

Maintains (family) ties

Many men won’t readily admit it, but they still find it extremely important that their woman has a good relationship with her relatives, especially his family. Friends are also an important part of life.

Take the time to really get to know his family. What can you tell about his family that he can’t tell you? There’s nothing more annoying than when a woman reluctantly goes to his family, even though he understands your objections.

Or when you always stay home when he goes to a birthday or friends. Of course, you don’t have to be glued to him, but ask if he would like it if you come along. Or just go along! The fact that you, as a woman, make an effort to understand him and his friends, makes you an incredibly nice partner.

Is feminine

When you think of femininity, you might think of wide hips and deep cleavage. But that’s not what this is about. Femininity is not just about appearance. There’s a trend going on where men and women are competing for the position of the strongest.

Women want to show that they are just as strong and tough as men. At the same time, there is indeed a difference between a man and a woman. This is not about who is stronger. Absolutely not. I am a big supporter of equal rights!

But it is about the fact that feminine inner qualities are fading into the background, while they are so incredibly valuable. Kindness, being relaxed, having an open demeanor, being social, and enjoying little, fun things are qualities that men really like in women.

Be the woman who is there to support him and whom he knows he can turn to when he’s down or needs a good conversation. The better you understand him, the better he feels about you. It makes you a great partner to be with.

So, what does a man look for in a woman? Conclusion

The answer is that ultimately, the inner self is much more important for a man than appearance. Men seek qualities in a woman that extend beyond physical appearance. They value inner beauty, respect, ambition, trustworthiness, affection, positive influence, familial connections, and femininity. While looks may influence initial attraction, a lasting relationship is built on deeper foundations.

Respect is crucial; it reflects valuing his opinions and maintaining privacy. Ambition, not necessarily work obsession, is attractive, showing a drive for personal growth. Trust forms the bedrock, alleviating jealousy and fostering freedom. Affection, including cuddling, strengthens emotional bonds and intimacy. Positive influence encourages personal growth and relationship harmony.

Strong familial ties demonstrate commitment and understanding. Finally, femininity, encompassing kindness, relaxation, social warmth, and appreciation of small joys, enhances compatibility and supportiveness.