Uh-oh, you’re talking to a nice guy, but the conversation is dying out. How do you make sure you don’t mess it up? Or maybe you’re struggling to keep a conversation going with a guy while texting. No matter how much you like him, chatting doesn’t flow as smoothly as the average man in high heels.

In this article, you’ll discover exactly how to ensure there’s always a nice flow in your conversations and also how to keep a WhatsApp or Tinder conversation going.

How to keep the conversation going? Let’s start with a video I specifically made on this topic. I’ll give you my 7 best tips to prevent your next conversation with a nice guy from stalling!

Stay away from boring, standard questions

Have you ever had an interaction with a guy where you felt the conversation was about to stall? Desperately, you start searching for your next point to keep the conversation going, but your creativity completely fails you. So, you give up and ask an extremely boring standard question. “What do you do for work?”

The problem isn’t even that we have no idea what to say at that moment. The real issue is that we’ve let it get so far that it has become boring. If you handle it well from the start, your conversation will hardly have any silent moments. That’s why I’ll tell you more about the ingredients of an attractive conversation in the following tips.

Play with him to keep a conversation going

Some women flirt as if it’s second nature. But maybe you’re one of the many women who don’t really understand how flirting works. Flirting is a combination of giving and taking attention, challenging him, teasing, and testing him. You create a certain tension between you.

Now we’re often used to thinking that tension is wrong. We want friendly contact with other people. So, when there is tension, it feels unpleasant and you want to solve it. However, there is also such a thing as good tension, and that’s exactly what you want to create.

A tension that keeps the conversation going with a guy and makes him deeply attracted to you. And if he starts teasing back, then you know you’re doing well. Flirting makes the difference between a boring conversation where you like everything he says, and a conversation where sparks fly.

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Attract him nonverbally

Often, we wrongly focus entirely on what we say. But 93% of communication is in how you speak and what you do with your body. Your success with a man is therefore largely not in what you say.

So how do you become a non-verbal wonder? Make eye contact a little too long. This creates that attractive tension between you. It indicates that you may be interested in him. Occasionally switch this up by teasing him and deliberately taking all your attention away. So, he never knows for sure what he has with you, and he does everything to get your attention back. Be open to him. Have an open body posture. Turn your body completely in his direction and don’t hide your chest behind your arms. With your open body language, men feel more welcome and you make it easier for them to start the conversation.

Be playful. This is the non-verbal element of what you learned earlier about flirting. What you’re doing here is subtly showing your interest and femininity, which is irresistible to him. Play with your hair, and stick out your tongue. Touch him when you talk, or gently push him when he teases you. By touching him, you invite him to touch you. Some men just need a little extra help ;).

Create a deep connection

If you’re wondering how to keep a conversation going on Tinder, WhatsApp, or in person and you want more than just an adventure, then deep connection is your secret weapon. Once you master this, it feels like you never run out of things to talk about. You do this by asking why questions.

Have you ever had someone ask you a deeper question, for example: “What makes you go to work with a smile every day?” How did that feel? Amazing, right? It makes him more open to you, and he feels like you’ve known each other for a lifetime. It’s even scientifically proven that when someone can be themselves with you, they will like you.

If you have a genuine interest in him, and really wonder who he is, these kinds of questions will come to you spontaneously. Don’t be afraid to just ask them. The why question also opens up possibilities for further conversation. So, you no longer have to fear a conversation that stalls. It’s one of the simplest ways to keep a conversation going.

Learn to deal with silence

There will undoubtedly be moments in your conversation where there is silence. This is inevitable when you’ve been talking to a guy for a while. But silences are okay! Because as I wrote earlier, what is said is only a small part of communication. And it’s actually very valuable if you can appreciate the silences. You can fill the silences by:

• Looking at him a little longer.
• Smiling
• Looking away for a moment, so he has the chance to look at you unnoticed.
• Subtly touching him.

He will feel that you are comfortable with the silence and don’t feel uncomfortable. He will also wonder what you’re thinking, it’s as if you secretly have something in your head that you’re not saying. This way you create tension again!

There are more ways to seduce and entice men. You can read about them in this article: If the silence becomes uncomfortable, Sometimes the silence lasts a long time, too long. The annoying thing, however, is that your creativity can’t come up with something brilliant on command. Think of it as a steam train: If you don’t put coal on the fire, it won’t move forward.

A good way to keep the conversation going is to associate. You ask yourself the question: What has been said, and what does that remind me of? Imagine, you’ve talked about cooking. Associations come to mind. For example, think about your favorite food. Questions you can ask them are:

• What is your favorite food?
• What do you often cook or not?
• Or you just tell someone something about your favorite food.

Leave room for spontaneity

The most fun conversations involve saying weird things, you have the best laughs, and you enjoy it intensely. This is because most conversations don’t go anywhere. And that’s how it should be in a conversation with a man. The conversation doesn’t have to have a logical structure. In fact, the more natural your conversation, the less logical it will automatically be.

Go with the flow, ask fun or silly questions. If you enjoy it, flirt and tease, he’ll only like it more. In other words: “Embrace your weirdness.” Something you can use for this is the environment you’re in. Do you see something funny in the environment? Just say it to him. For example, ask what he thinks of the odd outfit of the guy next to you. This way, you keep your conversations funny and lighthearted, and you can effortlessly keep the conversation going.

Recognize when it doesn’t click

Does the conversation continue to be difficult despite all your efforts? This could be because of you, but if the other person doesn’t cooperate, has no sense of humor, or is just extremely boring, it becomes difficult. Or sometimes your humor or view on things is simply so different that it doesn’t click at all. Of course, you’d prefer a man with whom you always have a nice conversation, a wonderful click, and it never feels boring or superficial. That’s why sometimes it’s just better to shift your attention to someone else.

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